Saturday, August 17, 2013

J. Lawrence House: arrangements updated - Larry House has died

Funeral arrangements for Larry House have been completed. The viewing and funeral will be held at Upper Dublin Lutheran Church, 411 Susquehanna Road, Ambler, PA 19002. The funeral will be held Thursday, August 22, 2013 at 11:00 am. Viewing hours are Wednesday, August 21 from 5:00 to 8:00 pm and Thursday, August 22, 10:00 to 10:45 am immediately preceding the funeral, both at the church. Clergy are asked to vest, and if vesting "please wear your favorite stole." A luncheon will follow the funeral; there will be no interment at the cemetery that day. Directions to Upper Dublin Lutheran Church can be found on the church's website:

following is the updated announcement of Larry's death:

J. Lawrence House, who over nearly 20 years was a dynamic, integral force in the growing giving initiative on behalf of the students, faculty, and staff of The Lutheran Theological Seminary at Philadelphia (LTSP), died unexpectedly Tuesday evening, August 13, at a Disney resort in Orlando, FL, where he was vacationing with his wife, Karen, and close family members. He was 63. Larry and Karen House lived in Plymouth Meeting and had been married 40 years. 

Karen and Larry House were in Orlando following the August 3 wedding in Pennsylvania of their daughter, Katie, to Michael Burton, a Whitemarsh Township police officer. They vacationed several days together before being joined by other family members at the resort where House died. Katie and Michael were honeymooning elsewhere. 

"Larry," as he was known, served two stints at LTSP. From 1991 to 2006 he was Director of Development, providing leadership in areas including the annual fund, alumni relations, major gifts, planned gifts, and two significant capital appeals - one for $8 million and one for $20 million. He then served in a similar capacity for three years as Vice President of Development for Liberty Lutheran Services, a Southeast Pennsylvania Lutheran Social Ministry Organization, before returning to LTSP in 2009 as Director of Leadership Giving. He also held the titles of Senior Major Gifts Officer and Senior Philanthropic Advisor, the post he held at the time of his death. A Certified Fund Raising Executive and rostered Associate in Ministry (AIM) with the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America (ELCA), House, during his second seminary stint, focused on securing larger gifts through developing current gift strategies as well as assisting graduates and friends considering their ultimate stewardship through planned and estate gifts. 

"I try to help people achieve their philanthropic goals," House would say. And his comprehensive experience in all aspects of fundraising made him well equipped to do so. For Larry House, the simpler moments in fundraising gave him greatest pleasure, he once said, for example seeing the look of joy on a donor's face when viewing the fruits of his or her giving on behalf of the school and its students. "That look always told me that everyone benefits when someone decides to give," House said. 

The scope of annual giving increased more than 10-fold during House's first 15 years at the school. But numbers alone do not tell Larry House's story. Blessed with a rich and deeply resonant voice and easy-going humor, House was a gifted storyteller who seemed both at ease and inspirational before an audience, from the pulpit, or when sharing anecdotes about the school he loved in someone's living room. House often spoke without notes. He used to talk about the importance of building relationships through numerous personal visits as the way to attract financial support. 

"Donors became his friends," Mark Staples recalled of House. Staples, former Director of Communications at LTSP, served many years with House as a colleague. "Larry House genuinely cared about people. And they cared about him. His mind and heart were storehouses of memories. He loved telling stories about the people he had come to know and value over so many years. A hallmark example of his visitation style was the annual trip he made to donors in Florida, accompanied by seminary Presidents Philip D.W. Krey and, before that, Robert G. Hughes." 

Speaking the day after her dad's death, daughter Stina Schaeffer remarked simply, "My dad knew he was loved." 

House began his career as a social worker for a Lutheran Social Ministry Organization in Northeastern Pennsylvania called Lutheran Welfare Services, based in Hazleton. He subsequently became a church and community program developer for the agency, and then its development director. He joined the development staff for the Lutheran Theological Seminary at Gettysburg before coming to LTSP in 1991. House belonged to Upper Dublin Lutheran Church, Ambler, PA, and was active in the congregation as well as being active in initiatives of the Southeastern Pennsylvania Synod of the ELCA, including serving on Synod Council. 

"We are saddened to have lost a great servant of the church and seminary," said LTSP President Philip Krey. "Larry was a wonderful friend to all, and a masterful member of the Philanthropy staff. Our hearts and prayers go out to Karen and the family." 

"Larry House is unlike any other fundraiser I have known," Dr. Robert Blanck, former chair of the LTSP Board of Trustees, said in 2006. "He's not simply a fundraiser. He sees donors as human beings. He doesn't really do it just for the money. He gets close to people and enjoys his dealings with them very much. With Larry, what you see is what you get. And I think that is why he is so successful." 

"Larry was a man of great generosity," said John V. Puotinen, Vice President for Philanthropy at LTSP and President of the LTSP Foundation. "He gladly shared his love for the church, his wealth of experience and knowledge of philanthropy and stewardship, and blessed all he met with warmth and good humor. He will be missed, but what he gave all of us will be gratefully remembered." 

"Larry was an invaluable leader at LTSP," said the Rev. Dr. John Richter, former chair of the seminary's Board of Trustees. "His tireless efforts to encourage supporters to share their resources with the seminary have supported the education of a generation of rostered leaders. His sustaining ministry has been and will continue to be a blessing to many. The seminary community offers prayers of thanks for Larry's life and vocation. In the midst of sorrow, may we all rest in the sure and certain hope of the resurrection." 

"Larry's premature departure from this life breaks my heart," said the Rev. Dyan Lawlor, lead pastor of Upper Dublin Lutheran Church. "Any pastor benefits greatly from having Larry's counsel, insight, and experience in building a solid and healthy foundation for the church's future. Pastor Keith Anderson and I surely owe him our deep thanks. But the ELCA, LTSP, and Upper Dublin have lost a 'Steward Extraordinaire.' Larry's big heart, contagious laugh, and endless devotion to securing the future of theological education were exemplary and successful." Lawlor noted House served Upper Dublin as Assisting Minister, usher, and Endowment Fund Chair, and also acted in church dramas both "serious and silly." 

"My heart is full of love, respect, and affection, as well as grief, as Larry House has left us to claim his baptismal promise in Christ," Bishop Claire Schenot Burkat of the Southeastern Pennsylvania Synod said upon learning of House's unexpected death. "Larry will always be remembered as a man of contagious joy, deep faith, and great generosity in every way." 

Surviving, with his widow Karen, are two daughters, the Rev. Stina, wife of Gary Schaeffer of Huntingdon Valley, PA and Katie, wife of Michael Burton of Conshohocken, PA; a son, Erik, who lives with his wife, Sarah, in Wyndmoor, PA; a brother, William, of Vero Beach, FL; and three grandchildren. Gary Schaeffer ('09) and Stina Schaeffer ('10) are LTSP alumni. The Rev. Stina is a pastor at Gloria Dei Lutheran Church, Huntingdon Valley, PA; and Gary is an Associate in Ministry at St. James Lutheran Church in Limerick, PA. 

Funeral arrangements can be found at the beginning of this announcement


andrena ingram said...

Rest in Peace, Larry. He was always so kind, whenever we crossed paths. Grateful for his gift of joy to the church.

Ray Hopkins said...

Larry shared the joy of bad puns and it has been a joy to know Larry. For me, memorable laughs make me smile and fill me with joy. Larry's laugh at a bad pun or a good pun is something that would just lift me up.

He gave the world so much and I know from comments I have seen online, his influence and teachings will continue to be shared through the congregations of those students at the LTSP he worked with.